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Twelve years ago today

July 6th, 2007

Mr. Husband and I went on our first date.

It’s quite cute really, our little love story.  We knew each other in high school, flirted, but I was in a long term relationship with someone else, as was Brian.  On July 3rd, 1995, my long term boyfriend and I had finally broken up.  We weren’t terribly dysfunctional, we just had no future for the two of us.  I can remember during an argument he said "well, are we going to get married, what’s our plan?"  (he was 2 years older) and I had never even entertained the thought of marriage with him and I was like "uh…no."  We broke up not too soon after that.  Which was good because Brian and his ex-crazy-girlfriend and him broke up and there we were, magically together, thanks to some mutual friends.

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It was the evening of July 6th, I was working at a shoe store and Brian walked in.  I remember seeing him walk in and my heart fell to the floor with a loud, obnoxious thud.  I was so nervous and excited and pitiful, all those feelings rolled up into one sweaty mess.   

He needed dress shoes.  No really, he did.  It wasn’t anything romantic like "he bought a pair of shoes just to give him a good reason to come visit," because my husband??  Does not spend money unnecessarily, okay?  Even at the ripe old handsome age of eighteen.  Either way, I was there, helping him pick out a pair of black oxfords for work. 

He found a pair and then asked me me if I would see a movie with him that night.  I screamed calmy accepted his offer and went home and got changed and he was at my house and it was all pretty dreamy because truthfully I had a crush on this boy for quite awhile.

Two days prior we were at a fourth of July party at our mutual friend’s house on the beach and Brian wound up driving me home.  I can remember walking into my house and saying to my parents "you will NEVER believe who just drove me home."  When I told my Mom who it was I could see the excitement in her eyes.  Her thoughts of "good kid, Eagle Scout, nice parents, handsome and smart" were swirling around her head frantically.  She was almost as excited as I was.

We began seeing each other very seriously that summer before he left for college.  When he left I knew that this boy was something amazing.  My heart broke as he drove away.

Four years later, two months after college graduation, we were married.

And he wore those black oxford dress shoes on our wedding day.

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Comments

  1. 1
    Lori - Queen of Dirty Laundry says:
    July 6, 2007 at 5:03 pm

    Aw, what a sweet story, and what a cute, cute couple you are! Congratulations on making it through 12 years together, and best wishes for many, many more!

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    Lori - Queen of Dirty Laundry says:
    July 6, 2007 at 5:03 pm

    Aw, what a sweet story, and what a cute, cute couple you are! Congratulations on making it through 12 years together, and best wishes for many, many more!

  3. 3
    Tracy F says:
    July 6, 2007 at 7:22 pm

    Aw, that is sweet. You always know when you found the one.

  4. 4
    Tracy F says:
    July 6, 2007 at 7:22 pm

    Aw, that is sweet. You always know when you found the one.

  5. 5
    jodi says:
    July 6, 2007 at 8:25 pm

    Awww…that IS sweet!

  6. 6
    jodi says:
    July 6, 2007 at 8:25 pm

    Awww…that IS sweet!

  7. 7
    Sincerely Anna says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:05 pm

    That’s really cute. I just posted a “12 years ago today” story about my husband and me. Small world! http://sincerelyanna.wordpress.com/2007/07/05/a-notice/

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    Sincerely Anna says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:05 pm

    That’s really cute. I just posted a “12 years ago today” story about my husband and me. Small world! http://sincerelyanna.wordpress.com/2007/07/05/a-notice/

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    Faerylandmom says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:24 pm

    Now THAT is a sweet prost to read after the day I just had…

  10. 10
    Faerylandmom says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:24 pm

    Now THAT is a sweet prost to read after the day I just had…

  11. 11
    Adventures In Babywearing says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:59 pm

    Oh my goodness, if that isn’t the sweetest!!

    Steph

  12. 12
    Adventures In Babywearing says:
    July 6, 2007 at 9:59 pm

    Oh my goodness, if that isn’t the sweetest!!

    Steph

  13. 13
    dcrmom says:
    July 6, 2007 at 10:00 pm

    Aww, such a sweet story! We’re coming up on 12 years, ourselves.

  14. 14
    dcrmom says:
    July 6, 2007 at 10:00 pm

    Aww, such a sweet story! We’re coming up on 12 years, ourselves.

  15. 15
    Dana says:
    July 6, 2007 at 11:09 pm

    Aren’t you just adorable in that picture? Thanks for sharing that sweet story!

  16. 16
    Dana says:
    July 6, 2007 at 11:09 pm

    Aren’t you just adorable in that picture? Thanks for sharing that sweet story!

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    Beth/Mom2TwoVikings says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:07 am

    *standing ovation* Yeah! *clapping* Congratulations!

    And, as for the email situation, again thank you for trying to help me figure it out. No one else is having a problem getting through to me yet. Still don’t know what’s going on…but until I do, maybe use the qtm acct to reach me.

    Asked DaHubby re: Redamak’s and maybe as a celebration if my possible part-time, 6 month contract with Whirlpool interview process FINALLY wraps up with good news, we could meet ya there in the next few weeks!

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    Beth/Mom2TwoVikings says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:07 am

    *standing ovation* Yeah! *clapping* Congratulations!

    And, as for the email situation, again thank you for trying to help me figure it out. No one else is having a problem getting through to me yet. Still don’t know what’s going on…but until I do, maybe use the qtm acct to reach me.

    Asked DaHubby re: Redamak’s and maybe as a celebration if my possible part-time, 6 month contract with Whirlpool interview process FINALLY wraps up with good news, we could meet ya there in the next few weeks!

  19. 19
    Amy F. says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:19 am

    Awww…that IS a really cute story. I knew you guys way back before you got together, but never the details of how your relationship developed, very sweet.

  20. 20
    Amy F. says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:19 am

    Awww…that IS a really cute story. I knew you guys way back before you got together, but never the details of how your relationship developed, very sweet.

  21. 21
    Beth/Mom2TwoVikings says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:56 am

    Happy Saturday, girl! Hope your weekend is going well. I just tagged you for a meme. Come see me when you get a sec: http://twolittlevikings.blogspot.com/2007/07/tagged-five-things-i-love-about-jesus.html

  22. 22
    Beth/Mom2TwoVikings says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:56 am

    Happy Saturday, girl! Hope your weekend is going well. I just tagged you for a meme. Come see me when you get a sec: http://twolittlevikings.blogspot.com/2007/07/tagged-five-things-i-love-about-jesus.html

  23. 23
    Amy says:
    July 7, 2007 at 4:49 pm

    Happy 12th first-date-anniversary!

    My DH and I went to high school together but never dated until college. Isn’t it funny how sometimes the one you’re meant to be with is right there in front of you? :)

  24. 24
    Amy says:
    July 7, 2007 at 4:49 pm

    Happy 12th first-date-anniversary!

    My DH and I went to high school together but never dated until college. Isn’t it funny how sometimes the one you’re meant to be with is right there in front of you? :)

  25. 25
    Katiebod (Rose are Red, Violets are Violet) says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:29 pm

    Awww… that is so much sweeter than meeting at a bar…in Panama City…on Spring Break.

    Did I say that outloud?

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    Katiebod (Rose are Red, Violets are Violet) says:
    July 7, 2007 at 11:29 pm

    Awww… that is so much sweeter than meeting at a bar…in Panama City…on Spring Break.

    Did I say that outloud?

  27. 27
    Beki (pamperingbeki) says:
    July 8, 2007 at 2:20 pm

    That’s very sweet! Congratulations on making it this far. :) I know you have many years still ahead.

  28. 28
    Beki (pamperingbeki) says:
    July 8, 2007 at 2:20 pm

    That’s very sweet! Congratulations on making it this far. :) I know you have many years still ahead.

  29. 29
    Lynette says:
    July 8, 2007 at 5:50 pm

    What an awesome post and a wonderful story. That picture doesn’t even resemble the two of you. You are so young looking! Not that you look old now or anything, but you completely look like a teenager. So cute!

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    Lynette says:
    July 8, 2007 at 5:50 pm

    What an awesome post and a wonderful story. That picture doesn’t even resemble the two of you. You are so young looking! Not that you look old now or anything, but you completely look like a teenager. So cute!

  31. 31
    Liza says:
    July 9, 2007 at 11:53 am

    AH….. MEMORIES! This is sooo sweet!
    You look really cute on that short hair do :)

  32. 32
    Liza says:
    July 9, 2007 at 11:53 am

    AH….. MEMORIES! This is sooo sweet!
    You look really cute on that short hair do :)

  33. 33
    Liza says:
    July 9, 2007 at 11:53 am

    AH….. MEMORIES! This is sooo sweet!
    You look really cute on that short hair do :)

  34. 34
    Liza says:
    July 9, 2007 at 11:53 am

    AH….. MEMORIES! This is sooo sweet!
    You look really cute on that short hair do :)

  35. 35
    Michelle says:
    July 9, 2007 at 1:56 pm

    I love reading things I didn’t know about my little brother!!! (And your mom–she was dreamy eyed about him even then?!?!) Happy 12 years!!

  36. 36
    Michelle says:
    July 9, 2007 at 1:56 pm

    I love reading things I didn’t know about my little brother!!! (And your mom–she was dreamy eyed about him even then?!?!) Happy 12 years!!

  37. 37
    bee says:
    July 9, 2007 at 8:59 pm

    I just love a good “how we met” story! Thanks for sharing!

  38. 38
    bee says:
    July 9, 2007 at 8:59 pm

    I just love a good “how we met” story! Thanks for sharing!

  39. 39
    crookedeyebrow says:
    March 26, 2008 at 9:27 am

    shoes…he wore the shoes.

    the tears will stop shortly…

  40. 40
    crookedeyebrow says:
    March 26, 2008 at 9:27 am

    shoes…he wore the shoes.

    the tears will stop shortly…



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