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February 27th, 2008

I don’t know what to write, other than we are besides ourselves with sadness.  I delivered the babies last night, James at 9:43 p.m. and Jake at 9:55 p.m.  The identical twins brothers were created together, delivered together and died together.  Every bit of them was perfect.   What caused their death seems to have something to do with an umbilical cord.

We, of course, are so very sad, but please let me take a moment to thank EACH AND EVERYONE of you for your thoughts, prayers and comments.  Your words of encouragement and prayers have helped not just Brian and myself, but every member of our entire family and our friends who are grieving right beside us.  Thank you for taking the time to show us how much you care.

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Please pray for our strength

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Comments

  1. 151
    Jen (thing two ) from FOH says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:03 pm

    Beth,

    I don’t know what to say, other then I am so very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you, and praying for you and your family.

    Jen

  2. 152
    Jen (thing two ) from FOH says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:03 pm

    Beth,

    I don’t know what to say, other then I am so very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you, and praying for you and your family.

    Jen

  3. 153
    MamaBearJune says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:53 pm

    I know there are no words. Grieving for you and praying that the Lord will hide you under the shadow of His wing for as long as you need it.

  4. 154
    MamaBearJune says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:53 pm

    I know there are no words. Grieving for you and praying that the Lord will hide you under the shadow of His wing for as long as you need it.

  5. 155
    An Uncluttered Life says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:55 pm

    They are dancing on streets made of gold! They see the face of Jesus! You will one day be reunited.
    Cayce

  6. 156
    An Uncluttered Life says:
    February 27, 2008 at 11:55 pm

    They are dancing on streets made of gold! They see the face of Jesus! You will one day be reunited.
    Cayce

  7. 157
    kim says:
    February 28, 2008 at 12:35 am

    Beth,
    I have never commented before, but I have to today. I, a stranger, mourn with you and your family. I will pray for you, dear, sweet, mother. I am sad with you.
    kim

  8. 158
    kim says:
    February 28, 2008 at 12:35 am

    Beth,
    I have never commented before, but I have to today. I, a stranger, mourn with you and your family. I will pray for you, dear, sweet, mother. I am sad with you.
    kim

  9. 159
    Kimberlee says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:40 am

    You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers! We are so sorry for your loss.

    May you be comforted knowing that James and Jake are looking down on you from the heavens! One day you will hold them in your arms, but for now, they are safely in HIS arms!

  10. 160
    Kimberlee says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:40 am

    You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers! We are so sorry for your loss.

    May you be comforted knowing that James and Jake are looking down on you from the heavens! One day you will hold them in your arms, but for now, they are safely in HIS arms!

  11. 161
    Heather says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:51 am

    Beth, you are not alone. You are loved and prayed for. We lost our first daughter to a cord accident at 36 weeks. She has welcomed your boys to heaven.

  12. 162
    Heather says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:51 am

    Beth, you are not alone. You are loved and prayed for. We lost our first daughter to a cord accident at 36 weeks. She has welcomed your boys to heaven.

  13. 163
    S. says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:14 am

    I just happened to find your blog this morning through the “discover” option in my Google blog reader… and when I read this post I got cold chills and tears sprang to my eyes immediately. We lost our niece at 27 weeks last year, and it breaks my heart to know that anyone, even a perfect stranger, is suffering that same kind of loss. Words seem hollow and empty, but please know that I am lifting up your entire sweet family in prayer. The only thing that has provided real comfort for me is knowing we will someday have reunion with my niece. Your precious sons Jake and James will be held in the hearts of many here on earth, and held in the arms of Jesus until your reunion with them in heaven. Sending so much love and prayers for comfort in your direction… I am so very sorry.

  14. 164
    S. says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:14 am

    I just happened to find your blog this morning through the “discover” option in my Google blog reader… and when I read this post I got cold chills and tears sprang to my eyes immediately. We lost our niece at 27 weeks last year, and it breaks my heart to know that anyone, even a perfect stranger, is suffering that same kind of loss. Words seem hollow and empty, but please know that I am lifting up your entire sweet family in prayer. The only thing that has provided real comfort for me is knowing we will someday have reunion with my niece. Your precious sons Jake and James will be held in the hearts of many here on earth, and held in the arms of Jesus until your reunion with them in heaven. Sending so much love and prayers for comfort in your direction… I am so very sorry.

  15. 165
    Kris says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:27 am

    I am so sorry. I have been a lurker for quite a while I have laughed with you and adored the pictures of your kids and now this morning when I read about your loss I am crying right along with you.
    My heart goes out to you and your family. Please take care.

  16. 166
    Kris says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:27 am

    I am so sorry. I have been a lurker for quite a while I have laughed with you and adored the pictures of your kids and now this morning when I read about your loss I am crying right along with you.
    My heart goes out to you and your family. Please take care.

  17. 167
    Penny in Pennsylvania says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:38 am

    Hi Beth. I’ve been a lurker for about a year now. My heart is broken for you. I lost my first baby at 37 weeks and I know the emptiness you feel. When you get the opportunity, listen to Natalie Grant’s “Held” Amazing song for anyone who has lost a child. Hugs to you, internet-sister. *Penny

  18. 168
    Penny in Pennsylvania says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:38 am

    Hi Beth. I’ve been a lurker for about a year now. My heart is broken for you. I lost my first baby at 37 weeks and I know the emptiness you feel. When you get the opportunity, listen to Natalie Grant’s “Held” Amazing song for anyone who has lost a child. Hugs to you, internet-sister. *Penny

  19. 169
    Sara says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:49 am

    My heart just fell to my stomach when I read your post. I can’t even tell you how incredibly sorry I am. I am here for you if you need anything. If you want to talk or anything…just let me know. I am here! I would give you all a huge hug and not let go if I was there. You must have given those beautiful boys so much love that they were fufilled with life. I know that doesn’t even come close to justifying why this happened…but you are an incredible mother who loved those boys from the moment they were conceived. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I love you!

  20. 170
    Sara says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:49 am

    My heart just fell to my stomach when I read your post. I can’t even tell you how incredibly sorry I am. I am here for you if you need anything. If you want to talk or anything…just let me know. I am here! I would give you all a huge hug and not let go if I was there. You must have given those beautiful boys so much love that they were fufilled with life. I know that doesn’t even come close to justifying why this happened…but you are an incredible mother who loved those boys from the moment they were conceived. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I love you!

  21. 171
    mom_of2boys says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:49 am

    I stumbled across your blog today. I’m sorry to hear of your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain and sadness that you and your family are facing. You and your family will be in our prayers.

    God bless!

  22. 172
    mom_of2boys says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:49 am

    I stumbled across your blog today. I’m sorry to hear of your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain and sadness that you and your family are facing. You and your family will be in our prayers.

    God bless!

  23. 173
    liz @ monkey Kisses says:
    February 28, 2008 at 9:54 am

    You all are definately still in my thoughts and prayers.. I am so sorry for your loss!

  24. 174
    liz @ monkey Kisses says:
    February 28, 2008 at 9:54 am

    You all are definately still in my thoughts and prayers.. I am so sorry for your loss!

  25. 175
    dcrmom says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:00 am

    Beth, my heart breaks for you and your family. I am praying for your strength and peace in the weeks and months ahead.

  26. 176
    dcrmom says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:00 am

    Beth, my heart breaks for you and your family. I am praying for your strength and peace in the weeks and months ahead.

  27. 177
    Jenna says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:31 am

    I hope that you know how much you are loved in the blog world by people who have never met you. I had not heard of your blog, until two blogs that I do read both mentioned you and their great sadness for you. I found your blog through one of them, read your story and am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in many people’s thoughts and prayers, lots of people you’ve never even met.

  28. 178
    Jenna says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:31 am

    I hope that you know how much you are loved in the blog world by people who have never met you. I had not heard of your blog, until two blogs that I do read both mentioned you and their great sadness for you. I found your blog through one of them, read your story and am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in many people’s thoughts and prayers, lots of people you’ve never even met.

  29. 179
    Kat says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:35 am

    You have always had a joyful and encouraging blog for all of us to come to. Everyone appreciates that so much and we are sooo here for you. Hang in there and know that even if you do not know us, we are all praying for you.

  30. 180
    Kat says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:35 am

    You have always had a joyful and encouraging blog for all of us to come to. Everyone appreciates that so much and we are sooo here for you. Hang in there and know that even if you do not know us, we are all praying for you.

  31. 181
    Becky says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:58 am

    What a tragic loss! I hope somehow you will be o.k.

  32. 182
    Becky says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:58 am

    What a tragic loss! I hope somehow you will be o.k.

  33. 183
    Mrs. F says:
    February 28, 2008 at 1:02 pm

    You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.

    *hugs*

  34. 184
    Mrs. F says:
    February 28, 2008 at 1:02 pm

    You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.

    *hugs*

  35. 185
    WCD says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:10 pm

    Hugs from Oregon. I was referred her by another blogger. I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost a set of twins — I lost mine in the 3rd trimester. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take time to grieve, and take care of you.

  36. 186
    WCD says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:10 pm

    Hugs from Oregon. I was referred her by another blogger. I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost a set of twins — I lost mine in the 3rd trimester. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take time to grieve, and take care of you.

  37. 187
    Judy says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:45 pm

    Continuing to remember you and yours in prayer.

  38. 188
    Judy says:
    February 28, 2008 at 5:45 pm

    Continuing to remember you and yours in prayer.

  39. 189
    Sabrina says:
    February 28, 2008 at 7:30 pm

    I am so sorry. I will keep your family in my prayers.

  40. 190
    Sabrina says:
    February 28, 2008 at 7:30 pm

    I am so sorry. I will keep your family in my prayers.

  41. 191
    tammy b says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:55 pm

    so many prayers. no words.

  42. 192
    tammy b says:
    February 28, 2008 at 8:55 pm

    so many prayers. no words.

  43. 193
    Ann says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:32 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I was referred here by another blogger. I miscarried twins at 14 weeks about a year ago. ((Hugs))

  44. 194
    Ann says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:32 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I was referred here by another blogger. I miscarried twins at 14 weeks about a year ago. ((Hugs))

  45. 195
    The Queen B says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:52 pm

    I am so very sorry. I have no words other than I am praying for you.

  46. 196
    The Queen B says:
    February 28, 2008 at 10:52 pm

    I am so very sorry. I have no words other than I am praying for you.

  47. 197
    Julie says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:01 pm

    I am so very sorry for the deaths of your baby boys! My heart aches for you and your family. I have no words that’ll help you. But please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

  48. 198
    Julie says:
    February 28, 2008 at 11:01 pm

    I am so very sorry for the deaths of your baby boys! My heart aches for you and your family. I have no words that’ll help you. But please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

  49. 199
    Bella says:
    February 29, 2008 at 12:06 am

    Praying for comfort & strength for you & the family — praying that you feel are able to feel the love and support of everyone holding you in their hearts tonight.

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  50. 200
    Bella says:
    February 29, 2008 at 12:06 am

    Praying for comfort & strength for you & the family — praying that you feel are able to feel the love and support of everyone holding you in their hearts tonight.

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

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