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February 7th, 2009

It’s a very strange thing not waking up on your birthday with your family.  I am a family-birthday-tradition kinda girl.

So, this being my first birthday not waking up with some member of my family?

A little strange.

Also?  On each birthday I cry, except last year.  Last year was the first year I didn’t cry.  I can remember the evening vividly.   Brian, the kids and I,  all met our real estate agent at our dream house before going to dinner with my parents.

We had found the house that would fit the babies in my belly, Ariel and Racecar, my husband and I, for a very long time.   We bought the house in July.

During the day, the kids and I had lunch with my soul sister, it was a great day.  I can remember laying in bed and just feeling so fulfilled and so hopeful.

This year, I’ll probably cry.  Not because I don’t feel fulfilled, because even though this year has been, well, this year, I still have more blessings than I can count.  Now, more than ever, I realize the fragility of these blessings.  I know what I have and it’s all I want.

So for MY birthday, think about all YOU have, be grateful, roll around in it.

Count your blessings.

I bet you’ll lose count.

Categories : Family, JJF

Comments

  1. 1
    Katie says:
    February 7, 2009 at 8:03 am

    Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday DEAR Beth…..Happy Birthday to You!!!

  2. 2
    Kari says:
    February 7, 2009 at 8:14 am

    Yay!!!!! Happy BDAY, you wonderful woman you!!!! :D Have a FAB day!!!

  3. 3
    Rebecca (Ramblings by Reba) says:
    February 7, 2009 at 8:16 am

    Happy birthday, Beth. I hope you’re having a good time at Blissdom. I know I am. :)

  4. 4
    Susan T says:
    February 7, 2009 at 8:36 am

    Happy Birthday Beth!

    Today is also my birthday – and I agree with your post completely. I’ve also lost a lot and experienced a lot of change in the past year and a half. I could sit here and cry (and I might a little), but I still have a life and I’ve been shown what really matters.

    I hope you have a FABULOUS day!

  5. 5
    Melissa says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:05 am

    Happy Birthday! Love you!

  6. 6
    Upstatemomof3 says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:10 am

    Happy Birthday!!! Enjoy your special day and count all those blessings!!!

  7. 7
    Chris says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:36 am

    Happy Birthday Beth!! I hope you have a great day!

  8. 8
    complicatedmama says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:52 am

    Happy Birthday!!! :)

    Don’t Cry… :) Eat more cake! (always makes me feel better hehe)

  9. 9
    Jessica says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:07 am

    Happy Birthday Beth! Hope you have a wonderful day!

  10. 10
    staciesmadness says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:27 am

    happy birthday to you
    happy birthday to you
    happy birthday dear beth
    happy birthday to you.

    and many more.

  11. 11
    Thea @ I'm a Drama Mama says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:28 am

    Happy Birthday, Beth! I’ll think of you today when I give the kids and Dave kisses.

    No, wait…

  12. 12
    Carrie says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:29 am

    Aw, sweetie, I hope you have a good birthday at Blissdom. I’m proud of you for counting your blessings even through your pain.

  13. 13
    ryley says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:45 am

    Happy Birthday…
    I will hug my blessing a little tighter for you today….
    Love ya!

  14. 14
    Bacardi Mama says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:57 am

    Happy Happy Birthday, Beth!! I hope it is a great day. When I count my blessings today, I will certainly count you among them.

  15. 15
    Natalie says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:59 am

    Happy Birthday to you!!

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    Elaine says:
    February 7, 2009 at 11:08 am

    Happy Birthday Beth! I hope you have a wonderful day surrounded by friends. And just think, you can probably have more cake when you get home to your family, right?

    Here’s to a wonderful year ahead. Cheers!

    Elaine

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    Lisa says:
    February 7, 2009 at 11:08 am

    Happy Birthday Beth!

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    mikki roo says:
    February 7, 2009 at 11:20 am

    Happy Birthday! Hope you’re enjoying Blissdom… Hug the kids a little tighter when you get home and all will be good! I haven’t ever cried on a birthday yet, but I also haven’t quite hit 30… only 2.5 years to go!

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    Courtney from Mommie Blogs says:
    February 7, 2009 at 11:38 am

    Happy Birthday!

    Wish I could have said it to you in person. I had to cancel my trip to blissdom at the last minute due to the loss of an old friend. I had everything ready and paid for, but wanted to say a proper good-bye. and this past week, with his loss, truly has taught me to count my blessings and give thanks everyday!

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    Erin says:
    February 7, 2009 at 12:31 pm

    You’re totally in my blessings, hooker! I hope that, despite everything, you have a great day surrounded by love. And I hope we can get together for a late birthday celebration soon, because I have an awesome, sparkly gift for you!

  21. 21
    AmyG says:
    February 7, 2009 at 12:55 pm

    Happy Birthday!!!

  22. 22
    Rhonda (mimi) says:
    February 7, 2009 at 2:57 pm

    Happy Birthday Beth! I’m gonna do just what you said…roll around in my blessings. Make sure you eat cake today!

  23. 23
    debi says:
    February 7, 2009 at 3:26 pm

    Happy Birthday Beth. I am so glad you took the trip.Until I saw it was your birthday and the date today I had forgotten it is my birthday in a few days. I cannot say I am glad to be this age but I am thankful that I am here at all and for all the blessings God has given to me.Thank you for the reminder to be grateful. I wonder how I can be so blind some days as to not notice it.I hope you get to laugh alot. Time away with girl friends is always a healing thing for me. Oh, and I love the shoes.

  24. 24
    Amanda W says:
    February 7, 2009 at 3:29 pm

    Happy Birthday, Beth! I’m glad we’ve gotten to know each other a bit this year. Enjoy that trip and coming home even more.

  25. 25
    Jenn says:
    February 7, 2009 at 4:04 pm

    Happy Birthday to you Beth… give yourself a big hug from all of us thinking of you! Cant wait to hear all about your trip!

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    mandy says:
    February 7, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    Happy BIRTHDAY!! You are so right, I lose count after 3 zillion. I cry too though, what’s up with that?? I am 31, 32 this year. I know I’ll be crying.

  27. 27
    Debbie says:
    February 7, 2009 at 4:59 pm

    Happy Birthday Beth!! =) Here’s to a new year!!

  28. 28
    inthefastlane says:
    February 7, 2009 at 5:10 pm

    Enjoy your birthday!

  29. 29
    Paula in Tennessee says:
    February 7, 2009 at 5:47 pm

    Happy Birthday, Beth… hope you have had a good day…
    :-)

  30. 30
    Sara says:
    February 7, 2009 at 6:40 pm

    Happy Birthday you!

    I’m sure you’ve had a great day!

  31. 31
    misti says:
    February 7, 2009 at 7:13 pm

    Happy Birthday.

  32. 32
    LeighAnn says:
    February 7, 2009 at 7:52 pm

    Hope you had a joyous birthday. Thanks for reminding us to be thankful for our blessings. Today started out rough but after reading this, I decided to “roll around in my blessings” even amidst a 1-year Army deployment. We are halfway thru and I’m tired and losing patience with my 3 blessings. I’m striving to find joy even in the hectic, chaotic times. Thanks again. Enjoy the rest of your b-day weekend and keep rockin’ the hot shoes.

  33. 33
    Emily says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:22 pm

    Happy Birthday Beth! Its been a tough week here and we are def counting our blessings! xoxo

  34. 34
    Audrey says:
    February 7, 2009 at 9:38 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :)

    I left you something on my blog. Check it out here: http://tinyurl.com/cpye9n

  35. 35
    Kellyn says:
    February 7, 2009 at 10:24 pm

    Happy Birthday Beth!

    I cry every yearm, so you are not alone there!

  36. 36
    Megan@SortaCrunchy says:
    February 8, 2009 at 6:53 am

    Happy birthday, sweet mama!!!

  37. 37
    Terri says:
    February 8, 2009 at 9:29 am

    Happy Birthday- I hope it was a good one.

  38. 38
    Ashley @ mrs007.com says:
    February 8, 2009 at 11:07 am

    Hey Beth…it was so awesome to meet you this weekend. I am so behind on blog reading and I just NOW got caught up with everything that has happened. I just wanted to send love and tell you that I think you rock. I am so glad you came to BlissDom despite all of the circumstances.

    You are one of the strongest people I know and I just admire you.

  39. 39
    Christina says:
    February 8, 2009 at 1:35 pm

    Happy Birthday

  40. 40
    ~love says:
    February 8, 2009 at 2:32 pm

    hope you had a great birthday!
    and you’re right, i’ve totally lost count…thank you.

  41. 41
    Frances says:
    February 8, 2009 at 6:49 pm

    Happy (belated) birthday, Beth!

  42. 42
    Lois-Goodies for Mom says:
    February 8, 2009 at 8:53 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! Hope you had a wonderful trip!!

  43. 43
    racheal says:
    February 8, 2009 at 9:45 pm

    happy happy birthday!

  44. 44
    Annie Anderson says:
    February 8, 2009 at 11:11 pm

    Happy belated birthday, Beth! I hope it was wonderful.

  45. 45
    FC says:
    February 9, 2009 at 8:16 am

    I hope your birthday was a good one. Happy Birthday!!!

    ~ FC

  46. 46
    Megan (mommyesquire) says:
    February 9, 2009 at 10:19 am

    I hope that your birthday was fabulous! I am certainly counting my blessings today.

  47. 47
    melissa @ the inspired room says:
    February 9, 2009 at 10:31 am

    I just wanted to tell you how honored I was to meet you this weekend and to have had the opportunity to say happy birthday to you in person. Hearing your story of coming to blissdom makes me even more impressed. I too have had a miscarriage and I know how emotional that time is. You were courageous to venture out among all those women in spite of how you must have felt. You are brave and inspiring!

    blessings,
    melissa

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    Jen@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam says:
    February 9, 2009 at 10:40 am

    So fun meeting you on thursday night at dinner when we first arrived. Can’t wait to begin following you, and have a real life person behind these new blogs I am finding. :)



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