Comments on: Sometimes, you’re the lucky one.

By: MoDLin

MoDLin — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 17:14:31 +0000

What a nice post. You’re right, most of us don’t realize how blessed we are. I’m truly sorry about the loss of your boys. We are blessed with five grandchildren, after three miscarriages and a preemie birth. Life is a struggle and a blessing. Hugs to you and your chidren.

By: March of Dimes- James and Jake « Capribythelake’s Weblog

March of Dimes- James and Jake « Capribythelake’s Weblog — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 21:44:43 +0000

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By: Elaine

Elaine — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 19:47:32 +0000

I’ve been “lucky” with my pregnancies and babies so far and I pray this one goes as well. However, I have witnessed two of my nephews born quite premature at 24 and 25 weeks. It’s a long, hard road but I do believe the March of Dimes is a wonderful support for parents going through such pain and sometimes yes, loss.

You know I’m so very sorry that you lost your precious boys and I know you cherish the two sweet, beautiful children that reside within your walls every day.

Here’s to Team James and Jake and all the babies you walk for…

By: Grandma Debbie

Grandma Debbie — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 19:14:37 +0000

I love reading your blog. I have you on my blog as a favortie to read. I can’t recall ever leaving a comment but today touched me. We had a long visit last night with my brother in law who lives in Oregon til 2 am. We were talking about trials and life’s experiences. When their 3rd child was born they thought everythig was fine. When Coleton turned 5 months they were down for a visit and his eyes looked funny and he wouldn’t react to movement or light. My sister in law mentioned this to them and said they need to get him to an eye specialist. They did as soon as they got back to Oregon. After the doctor examined Coleton, he said that there were a few minor things he detected that could be because of his age and so on. But then he stopped talking and said “What the heck, let’s do an MRI of the brain just to make sure everything is alright”. They agreed and set it up for the next day. During the MRI Debbie (the mother) asked if she could see the films after. The Radiologist said they could. After Coleton was done they waited for awhile and the nurse came out and said that the Films were sent to another doctor, a specialist, to be read so they could not see them. They took Coleton home and with much anticipation, uneasiness, and great sorrow, they figured that their son was blind. The Specialist called them the next day and asked them to drive to Portland and meet with him. They left Coleton with their two other children and met with the Doctor. They were anticipating he would say “I’m sorry your son is blind”. However, he said “I’m sorry there is no easy way to tell you this but your son has major brain damage that will leave him blind, retarded and a vegetable. You will be caring for your son 24/7 changing his diaper til he dies”. It has been a full time job for Debbie caring for him, Dr. visits, physical therapy, feeding tubes, several surgeries, breathing tubes etc. Coleton is now 10 years old. He recognizes movement, knows his family and laughs and smiles all the time. I’ve seen him 3 times in 10 years. What an angel! However I had no idea the full story or the impact this had on them. My heart broke as Blair was telling us.
We talk of trials in our individual lives and how hard they are, but he said to us “You guys have not had your TRAIL yet. Their dad died after a long fight of cancer; that was his trial. Blair and Debbie caring for Coleman, that is their trial. We will all experience our TRIAL in this life. Why? because during our TRIALS we turn to our loving Father in Heaven for help. We grow closer to him, we learn to trust Him and thru that love and trust we can help others along life’s path. I know that families can be together forever. Their is life after death and you will see your boys again. Good luck with your cute family and I wish you the best.

By: Sarah Viola

Sarah Viola — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 16:52:25 +0000

I’m lucky to be your friend. LOVE.

By: Melissa Weisbard

Melissa Weisbard — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:05:02 +0000

I had a miscarriage, my sister has had two miscarriages and her daughter, Alexis was born 16 weeks premature. She lived for 3 days. Every year since Alexis died (2003), my sister and I have chosen to walk for the March of Dimes. I am very sorry for your loss and I congratulate you on your two beautiful children. My sister now also has two beautiful children, Connor (4), and Raelee (9 months). I, unfortunately, have not been able to conceive since my miscarriage. I suffer from PCOS and it cause major fertility problems. Too many people don’t realize how blessed they are to have healthy babies (or to even be able to have babies). God Bless you and thank you for your commitment to the March of Dimes.

By: Puna

Puna — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 01:38:54 +0000

I read this post and I immediately added you to my blogroll. Hang in there…hang in there. Keep persevering.

By: Miche

Miche — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:19:00 +0000

Huge hugs to you; thank you so much for sharing your pain, your story, and the inspiration.

By: Zak

Zak — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:32:50 +0000

So very touching. Thank you for sharing their treasures with us.

By: I Should Be Folding Laundry

I Should Be Folding Laundry — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:07:34 +0000

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