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Reassured

October 27th, 2009

Today we had an ultrasound scheduled at the University of Chicago, everything was running late but we didn’t seem to mind, we just sat and watched people for an hour.

We were called back.  When the ultrasound began, we immediately caught a glimpse of this super sweet baby moving around inside.

We couldn’t help but notice just how much the baby enjoyed his or her hands, it almost seemed like the baby played with them the entire time.  I told the technician that I could watch this all day long, that it would be like THE BEST TV SHOW EVER.  She laughed and well, maybe I cried.

She asked if we wanted to know the gender, we politely declined.  It felt so strange to decline, but the fact that I wasn’t dying to find out, I knew we were making the right decision.  At one point, she had us close our eyes so she could peek downstairs.

We really just want to focus on the health of this baby, not the gender, but more on that later.

I felt like I had been laying on the table for a very long time,  I looked at the time and saw that we had been in the room for 45 minutes!  Another 15 minutes went by before the ultrasound was over.

A full hour we spent, checking out this baby, watching him or her move, watching the heart beat so perfectly.  It was perfect and fun and just what we needed.

Between that and the love that you wonderful people showed me in my post last night, I am feeling much, much better.

Reassured.  I am feeling reassured.

Our baby:

our baby 17 weeks 4 days

Categories : Pregnancy

Comments

  1. 1
    Megan (mommyesquire) says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    You don’t want to know the gender? I can’t imagine that – but then again, I’m all about instant gratification. I am a super planner and find out the gender as early as I possibly can.

    I am so excited that everything looked so good for you! Can’t wait to see pictures!

  2. 2
    Adventures In Babywearing says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:20 pm

    I LOVE IT~

    Steph

  3. 3
    Ashley says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:22 pm

    Wonderful! So happy for you!

  4. 4
    crookedeyebrow says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:24 pm

    You are strong…i would have peeked.
    totally would have peeked.

    BUT

    I am so very happy for you and Brian that you got to watch for a full hour! Your hearts must be singing!

    xoxo

  5. 5
    Kirsten says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:26 pm

    So glad that you got so much time to visit visually with the little one and that s/he is so active and healthy.

  6. 6
    Melissa Multitasking Mama says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    Reassured is a good place to be! Praising the Lord for you!!

  7. 7
    QuatroMama says:
    October 27, 2009 at 3:57 pm

    Breathing a sigh of relief along side you!

    I never thought I’d say this, but I miss those 4 sweet babies being in my belly. Knowing NOW that they are all here safe, I wish I could go back and enjoy just one of those 107 ultrasounds. I’d love to go back and relish them kicking each other, see their little profiles, watch each of their hearts beat…

    Enjoy the miracle!

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    QuatroMama says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:00 pm

    Breathing a sigh of reassurance with you.

    I never thought I’d say this, but I miss those 4 little lives being in my belly. I wish I could go back and relish just one of the 107 ultrasounds I had during their high-risk pregnancy and smile while they kicked each other, watch their 4 heartbeats, and see their sweet little profiles. I wasted so much time in fear.

    Enjoy the miracle!

  9. 9
    Lindsey says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:25 pm

    We didn’t find out the gender either (my husband said it was a financial decision to keep me under control), and it was the BEST BEST BEST suprise ever. Now that I’ve done it, I can’t imagine doing it any other way! Congratulations, I am so incredibly excited for you and your family!

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    Erin says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:37 pm

    As much as I am anti-finding out baby sex (for myself), I would’ve found it hard to not peek during that hour! I always tell them right off the bat so they don’t even offer, otherwise I’d totally be like YES. I’m so happy you had such a wonderful day.

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    Melanie @ Whimsical Creations says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:41 pm

    YAY!! I am so happy for you. Can not wait to see pictures. Such a precious moment.

  12. 12
    Melissa - Whooo's That Girl says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:42 pm

    I am so happy that she doing good!! ;p So happy for you all.

  13. 13
    audrey says:
    October 27, 2009 at 4:56 pm

    What a wonderful day for you. I’m thrilled to hear you’re reassured and that your little bundle is doing so well! :)

  14. 14
    Corinne says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:09 pm

    How wonderful!! :)

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    Heather@MamaSass says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:10 pm

    How wonderful to watch your precious little one for an entire hour. So happy for you guys!

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    Debbie says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:10 pm

    Oh Beth I know the feeling. I’m going to my first OB appointment tomorrow and i’m hoping to get an ultrasound to make sure everything is goin well in there! The anticipation is so overwhelming!! I’m glad things are going so good for you–you deserve it!!!

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    Becca says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:11 pm

    Such wonderful news! I hope you sleep well tonight and this reassured feeling holds you until the very end of your pregnancy!

  18. 18
    Nicolasa says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:18 pm

    I am so glad that you had such a wonderful ultrasound. It is such a great feeling to be relieved!

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    Sara says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:24 pm

    I find myself clicking on the link I have to your blog and holding my breath until the post title loads. (When I know there is probably “news” posted.) I always wait until I am the only one on the computer because if our internet was any slower, I would pass out from lack of oxygen checking up on you!

    How fabulous you got an hour “sneak peek”!

    Enjoy your evening and sleep well tonight my dear! You deserve it!

  20. 20
    Kellyn says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:29 pm

    How wonderful Beth! The time you got to spend with Hubby and the little one that you cherish so much is priceless. I can only imagine you starring at the screen.

    Can’t wait to see pictures!!

  21. 21
    Valerie says:
    October 27, 2009 at 5:31 pm

    In everything give thanks to God!

    Praise God for the pleasures of today, Praise God for reassurances, praise God for ultra sound technology, praise God for the thoroughness of the technicians and doctors, praise God for the precious life you are carrying as He forms (him or her) to be the perfect addition to your family. I am happy to read the smile in your heart and in your words.

    You all continue to be in my prayers.

  22. 22
    Carrie says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Oh, I love ultrasounds. They are so fun!!! I love seeing the little spine and the arms & legs…so neat. :) I’m so glad everything went well! And wow, i can’t even IMAGINE not wanting to know – I always want to know so desperately!!!!

  23. 23
    Veronica says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:20 pm

    Absolutely beautiful! I’m glad that you were able to watch for a full hour, I am sure that brought so much happiness and joy, seeing your baby healthy, moving, heart beating and enjoying his/her hands!

    Sometimes I think I want our next baby, should we have a next baby, to be a surprise in the gender department. I have found out with every one. But I also absolutely hate surprises, so I would probably be driven batty if I couldn’t find out!

  24. 24
    Lolli says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:28 pm

    What a beauty! I declined finding out the sex on all 5 of my pregnancies. My mom thought I was crazy. :)

  25. 25
    Keli says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:35 pm

    PERFECT!!!!!! xo

  26. 26
    Shelley says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:36 pm

    Yea for long ultrasounds and reassurance! A perfectly beautiful profile of your little one.

  27. 27
    Kaycee says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:38 pm

    Lovely! I am so glad you got to relax and enjoy watching your beautiful baby play! And SO glad you feel reassured. :)

  28. 28
    Sarah Viola says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:47 pm

    I stand by my previous gender statement.

    I love that you had such a wonderful, beautiful day.

  29. 29
    Mum-me says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:49 pm

    How lovely you got such a long ultrasound. Must be so reassuring.

    We didn’t find out what we were having the first 4 times. It’s one of the real surprises of life. After my son had prayed for a brother twice and been disappointed twice I found out the sex of our next two babies. I though that praying 9 months for a brother, only to find it was ANOTHER sister could have been enough to destroy his budding faith. Just as well, he is the only boy amongst us.

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    Jen says:
    October 27, 2009 at 6:51 pm

    That nose! So cute! I love ultrasound pics! Congrats.

  31. 31
    Sarah M. says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:02 pm

    Love it! Love it! Love it! I’m so glad you got to spend so much time with your baby :)

  32. 32
    Julie @ Life Domestic says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:03 pm

    Beautiful! My daughter had her ultrasound today. I am having another grandson. She is very excited… as I am. She gave me hand me downs from her two year old five months ago when my son was born… a very unexpected blessing… so now, as he outgrows them, I box them up and hand them back to her. :)

  33. 33
    kys says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:04 pm

    Yeah!! Great news! Answered prayers! I love that you had such a thorough and long look at you little one. I will continue to pray for you both.

  34. 34
    Heather says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:07 pm

    AMAZING! I love it. So glad you got to spend an hour with your beautiful baby!

  35. 35
    Melissa says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:48 pm

    this is awesome!

  36. 36
    misti says:
    October 27, 2009 at 7:51 pm

    The ultrasound looks perfect. I cant wait to meet him or her.
    Love you

  37. 37
    Elizabeth K. says:
    October 27, 2009 at 8:11 pm

    What a great profile pic of the baby! Such a little cutie already! It must be a great relief to get that hour long ultrasound and know the doctors are keeping close tabs on you both. I hope everything continues to go well! Congrats!

  38. 38
    melissa from girlymama says:
    October 27, 2009 at 8:12 pm

    beautiful. just beautiful.

  39. 39
    inthefastlane says:
    October 27, 2009 at 8:14 pm

    it IS a baby! LOVE it.
    And pray and the reassurance continues.

  40. 40
    Maria Berg says:
    October 28, 2009 at 4:34 am

    I coss my finger and pray so everything will be good, MB

  41. 41
    Maria Berg says:
    October 28, 2009 at 4:35 am

    Hi agin, di not see where the comment went, so good luck and I pray and cross my finger for you, Maria

  42. 42
    Sally M. says:
    October 28, 2009 at 4:42 am

    What a beautiful profile picture of your beloved baby. I am glad that some of your feelings of fear have been reassured by what I can only imagine is one of the best things to be seen on a screen ever. Still praying for you and your beautiful family. May you all continue to feel God’s loving touches of reassurance. Love and Prayers xo

  43. 43
    Jodie Brooks says:
    October 28, 2009 at 6:33 am

    Already beautifully handsome!! (not sure which, why not both??) I’m so happy for you!!

  44. 44
    Sarah @ Ordinary Days says:
    October 28, 2009 at 6:53 am

    What wonderful news! So happy for you! :)

  45. 45
    Casual Friday Every Day says:
    October 28, 2009 at 6:58 am

    Oh the delicate miracle of a baby. There is truly nothing else like it. He or she is just darling.

    Nell

  46. 46
    corrin says:
    October 28, 2009 at 7:58 am

    My husband and I have always said that we’d like to be surprised if we ever have kids. Neither of our parents inquired about gender before we were born – they just focused on a healthy baby.

  47. 47
    Jasmine says:
    October 28, 2009 at 8:09 am

    Ohhh… we had an ultrasound yesterday… they are such amazing things- how they can comfort you.
    Good luck!

  48. 48
    Kelly says:
    October 28, 2009 at 8:31 am

    What a beautiful baby! You are strong… I’m sure I would have peeked!

  49. 49
    Laura says:
    October 28, 2009 at 8:35 am

    Beautiful!

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    Allie says:
    October 28, 2009 at 8:40 am

    Hi Beth. Gosh, I am sitting here catching up on the last couple of weeks of you life with tears of happiness and reflection in my eyes. First of all, yay for the incredible ultrasound! Isn’t it like the best thing EVER? Second, I think that it is great to not find out the gender. It fosters the element of surprise, wonder and excitement of trying to guess all of the time. :) And third, if the feelings of fear, uneasiness or worry ever get overwhelming, email me K? As you know, I have been there so I understand what it can be like. Or, if you could always go back in my history …. BUT, the good news is that you are almost there my friend. I just wish that I could be there with you to hug, laugh, cry and worry.

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