Comments on: This moment, that fear.

By: stacey

stacey — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:06:49 +0000

I just found your site and I know this entry is old but I had to tell you how it touched me to hear someone who understands what I’m feeling right now. I have two miscarriages at 16 weeks and I sit here today at 15 weeks 6 days. I’m terrified. I think I’m going to lose my baby at any moment and I hate all the people telling me to “think positive” Congrats on your healthy pregnancy, it gives me hope that maybe I can have one too

By: courtney

courtney — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:42:30 +0000

wow I really cant explain how real this post was for and how much i feel the exact same way. My lost was full term but at no point do I think oh okay well I made it past that date so I can breath easy. I have to try to be very happy and blessed for the new baby but my heart still grieves very much and I have much as the same moments that you described.

thanks for sharing it makes me understand that the process is normal, and while most can not understand it, this helps me just a bit. thanks!

By: selfmademom

selfmademom — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:23:40 +0000

It’s so hard, but once that milestone comes, and goes, you’ll feel so much better. I’m scheduled to deliver next week, and the anxiety throughout this pregnancy has just ebbed and flowed. You can’t get over it, but know that you will be able to have a healthy baby! Best of luck.

By: staciesmadness

staciesmadness — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 15:31:12 +0000

wow.
i suck at moments like this. there are never words that can really express how I feel or that I could say to help you through this…

just know…i read, i cry, i laugh, i hope, and i think of you and your family…often.

By: Mom of Three

Mom of Three — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:28:19 +0000

Beth, do not give in to those emotions. Those are temptations to become self-fulfilling prophesies. You MUST have hope. For that little precious baby. He/she is WITH YOU RIGHT NOW, and you are the world. You cannot live in fear, although it’s so near and so easy to slip into. You have to walk in Faith, that each step is going to be guided by the Father.

Come on sweetie, you CAN make it through this. One day at a time.

By: Erin --It's Your Movie--

Erin --It's Your Movie-- — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 02:16:49 +0000

I read this last night on my iPod, in bed, and cried. You’re on my heart and in my prayers. I can’t wait to see this little one and learn his/her name see you entirely filled with the JOY you deserve.

By: Kaycee

Kaycee — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 00:39:59 +0000

Oh this just breaks my heart. Hang in there.

But what a wonderful blessing to be a tiny baby and already be SO LOVED and SO appreciated.

By: Marcela

Marcela — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 22:06:12 +0000

Praying and thinking about you. I held off on knowing the sex of both my babies. I always prayed that all I needed was a healthy baby.

By: Cathy

Cathy — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 20:27:46 +0000

I’m sorry you’re going through that. It’s just got to be so totally normal to feel that way, it doesn’t mean there is anything at all wrong. It’s just grief. I will be praying for you and praying for healing of your body and soul.

By: Zakary

Zakary — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:22:09 +0000

Hugs to you. Thinking of you always.

P.S. I can’t wait to meet your healthy and adorable little baby. It’s going to be amazing.