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Friday Morning Coffee

May 27th, 2011

Eli and I are hanging out in the kitchen eating breakfast. This has been a long week as far as Eli has been concerned. First a virus then four molars poking through, he hasn’t been himself, has hardly eaten and only wants his Mama.

Our new bed arrived yesterday and it’s truly heaven on earth.

And we had THE ultrasound on Wednesday.

If you recall, with Eli, we had the ultrasound tech write down the gender of the baby on a piece of paper and place it in an envelope. We then hung it on our Christmas tree for a few days, finally opening it after opening gifts on Christmas day.

Remember this photo? When Brian read “IT’S A BOY!“

finding out

This time, when we finally announced to the kids that we were pregnant, Anna said “can we not play any games, can we just go into the room and find out if it’s a girl?”

We laughed and sighed and said okay.

I had the ultrasound scheduled for four weeks. The kids counted down. I knew it was a boy and so did Brian. It wasn’t until two weeks before the ultrasound that I started to have other thoughts and it only happened when I felt movement. I would lay in bed and feel the baby move and I’d instantly think “oh! She moved!”

But still, I felt deep down that this was a boy. I think. Or maybe I had convinced myself it was a girl and I didn’t want to get Anna’s hopes up. And it’s not that I hoped it was a girl but I did love the idea of giving Anna a sister.

We entered the doctor’s office on Wednesday. Noah put his hands together, did the sign of the cross and said “please God. Please make this baby a boy. Amen.” I reminded him that our prayers should be for a healthy baby and he did the sign of the cross again and said “please God, Please make this baby healthy but mostly make it a boy.”

We entered the room with so much excitement. I couldn’t wait to catch a glimpse of the baby. It was then that a million emotions hit me. I just wanted this baby to be healthy, I needed to see a heartbeat, I had to see the feet and the legs and a profile and nothing else mattered.

She started with a profile shot. The instant reaction in the room by our sweet little family was so awesome. All of us ooohing and aaahing over how beautiful that baby was and it was at that moment, that we all forgot about genders. We just watched and marveled and okay, maybe the kids got a little bored with the measurements, but still, it was wonderful.

And I sat there surrounded, fully aware that this would be the last time in my life I’d hear “it’s a girl!” or “it’s a boy!” (at least for my own children) and how blessed I’ve been already. It was a little more than my pounding heart could take.

She moved to the legs and measured bones. (the kids loved that) And then she moved to that area. And I knew, instantly. I said “look at that.”

And the tech confirmed exactly what I already knew.

It’s a baby sister.

Isn’t she beautiful?

And even now, two days later, sitting next to my coffee, having just laid Eli down for his morning nap, my tears fall because I AM SO VERY BLESSED.

HAPPY Friday, friends.

Categories : Baby Fletcher 2011, Being a Mama

Comments

  1. 51
    Jessica P says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:07 am

    Congrats!! It is definitely ‘girl season’! I’m having a little girl too :)

  2. 52
    Courtney says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:10 am

    And, tears are dripping into my coffee.

    So good. So happy for you!

    Congratulations! She is beautiful :)

  3. 53
    Kristen says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:11 am

    Oh my goodness my heart is swelling for you! I’m so so excited Anna got a little sister :-)

  4. 54
    Dani Sticka says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:16 am

    So many congrats! 2 boys and 2 girls, what a blessing :)

  5. 55
    stacie says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:21 am

    congrats! you have a nice even little family…3 boys and now 3 girls!! Yay for frilly frills.

  6. 56
    Lisa @ Heaven Sent says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:52 am

    How wonderful! Congratulations on your precious little lady!!!!

    And a quick prayer for you:
    Lord, I pray that Beth continues to feel the joy, the excitement, and the peace she feels today every day until she gets to hold her baby girl in her arms. Amen.

  7. 57
    Elaine says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:55 am

    I think it’s so awesome that you were all there together for this amazing news. Congrats Beth! So excited for you all!! xo

  8. 58
    JR says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:56 am

    Congrats!!!

    I’m glad your daughter gets a sister!!! Sisters are awesome :) (I’m sure brothers are too but we don’t have any in our family!)

  9. 59
    Ordinary Sarah says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:56 am

    Oh, Beth! Yippee! Yippee! Your baby girl is just perfect! Congrats!

  10. 60
    Megan says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:14 am

    How wonderful!!! As you know, having a sister is the greatest thing in the world. I’m so glad that your two daughters will get to know that. When I was pregnant with M, I prayed most of all for a healthy baby – this baby that we had waited and prayed for – but I secretly hoped for a second girl so that A would have a sister. I love watching them grow and bond together.

  11. 61
    Jen says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:29 am

    Wooohoo! Congrats mama :)

  12. 62
    Jen {Tiny Oranges} says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:45 am

    Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seeing your kids with their little sister will just MELT your heart. I am so excited for your family! I am sending positive thoughts and love to your family. So happy for you all!! You KNEW it and actually when you were sitting at dinner that night I had a total vibe there was a girl in there! Hope you had a blissful night’s sleep in your new bed too! You will have lots of fun times cuddling with your new precious baby girl this fall in that awesome adjustable bed! Yay!!! So happy! This post made my day!!!

  13. 63
    Danielle Madaus says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:46 am

    So happy for you! I bet Anna is over the moon happy! My daughter Macie keeps asking me for a baby sister and I keep warning her that she could be left with another brother! Congratulations!

  14. 64
    Lyndsay says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:50 am

    SO HAPPY!
    I’m smiling for Anna today.
    {sniff}

  15. 65
    Amanda D says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:50 am

    Oh, congrats! Your post brought tears to my eyes. I’m so happy for you and your family. Good luck through the rest of your pregnancy!

  16. 66
    Zak says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:52 am

    I am so very thrilled that Anna got her wish.

    I can’t wait to meet this baby girl, love and hugs to you all.

  17. 67
    Sarah-Anne says:
    May 27, 2011 at 11:14 am

    congrats on your new baby GIRL! :D

  18. 68
    libby @ ninesandquines says:
    May 27, 2011 at 11:47 am

    SQUEE!!!! VERY excited for you :-)

  19. 69
    Carrie says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:15 pm

    Congratulations!! This was a really beautiful post and I am so moved and so happy for your family – this beautiful family whom I have never met. Thank you for sharing it all with us. May you feel the hand of God in your lives as you step into the future. Blessings!

  20. 70
    crookedeyebrow says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:16 pm

    SO very exciting!
    Healthy and a GIRL.

    Congrats to you all and we can’t wait to meet her.

  21. 71
    Mom says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:26 pm

    My tears are falling too at this beautiful post. It says everything and more about your wonderful family and you. I too prayed that the ultrasound would show us a healthy baby and I knew that whether it was a boy or a girl didn’t matter. A close brother for Eli or that sister that Anna always wanted – win/win. But I was SO happy to hear that you will have two boys and two girls and especially that she looks perfect! We are all so blessed!

  22. 72
    Jamie Lynn says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:35 pm

    Yay! Congratulations!

  23. 73
    Brooke says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:42 pm

    Just wanted to say congratulations to you and your family. I’ve been following your blog for a little while now and really teared up at your post. Even though I don’t know you personally, you write so beautifully and I really enjoy visiting your site. Congratulations again.

  24. 74
    Diane says:
    May 27, 2011 at 12:46 pm

    Aw, how perfectly sweet!! Congratulations!!

  25. 75
    Kami says:
    May 27, 2011 at 1:19 pm

    I’am so excited she is a girl!! Anna will bond with her like no other :)

  26. 76
    Kate at Big City Belly says:
    May 27, 2011 at 1:30 pm

    Hell yes it’s a girl!! Woo hoo. Our kids are gonna pair off perfectly. :) Congrats, Beth and family!!!

  27. 77
    Christina says:
    May 27, 2011 at 1:33 pm

    Congratulations! So very happy for you and your family!

  28. 78
    Amy F. says:
    May 27, 2011 at 1:53 pm

    This is the BEST news!!! I am so thrilled baby is healthy…and the icing on the cake is that she’s a GIRL. Happy for Anna and all of you. Congratulations, mama!!

  29. 79
    Tina says:
    May 27, 2011 at 2:27 pm

    Yay! I totally thought it was a boy. I bet Anna is just thrilled :)

  30. 80
    Grace @ Arms Wide Open says:
    May 27, 2011 at 2:39 pm

    congratulations! I just found out today that I’m having another boy (#2). our momma instincts are so right on!

  31. 81
    Nancy says:
    May 27, 2011 at 2:45 pm

    And as I wipe a tear from my eye, may I just say congratulations baby sister! You have no idea what a wonderful family you are going to be joining. XOXO

  32. 82
    dana says:
    May 27, 2011 at 3:09 pm

    wow!!! just, wow! :)

  33. 83
    kyooty says:
    May 27, 2011 at 6:44 pm

    YAY! i’m so glad to hear healthy!!!:) And a Girl, but a boy is good too. :)

  34. 84
    Gina says:
    May 27, 2011 at 7:02 pm

    That is the best thing I have heard since you announced the pregnancy- Congrats Beth! So very happy for you!

  35. 85
    Marie says:
    May 27, 2011 at 7:33 pm

    Best news I’ve heard today. Congrats !!!

  36. 86
    sue says:
    May 27, 2011 at 8:59 pm

    i read your post very carefully…scrolling down line by line. i didn’t want to spoil the surprise for myself by accidentally scrolling too fast and seeing BOY or GIRL until i got the end of your post. I’m excited for your whole family. how fun! congrats to all of you:)

  37. 87
    VDog says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:02 pm

    Oh my gosh, she looks adorable!!!

    I’m having a girl, too!

    Congratulations!

  38. 88
    We are THAT family says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:03 pm

    Such, such beautiful news! xoxo

  39. 89
    We are THAT family says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:04 pm

    such beautiful news!

  40. 90
    Sarah says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:25 pm

    This is such great news! Congratulations on a healthy baby girl! Can’t wait to hear what you will name her. Already anticipating the adorable newborn shots to come.

  41. 91
    Chris says:
    May 27, 2011 at 9:40 pm

    Yeah…a sister for Anna!! Congratulations!!!

  42. 92
    Celi says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:30 pm

    Awesome news! Congratulations!!

  43. 93
    Caryn Bailey says:
    May 27, 2011 at 10:51 pm

    A HUGE congratulations!!! HUGS!

  44. 94
    Jade@tasting grace says:
    May 28, 2011 at 1:35 am

    My heart is swelling with happiness for you! She is beautiful!

  45. 95
    Zee says:
    May 28, 2011 at 2:03 am

    Congratulations!!!!

  46. 96
    Erika says:
    May 28, 2011 at 7:49 am

    Yippee!! I have two of each as well! So fun!

  47. 97
    JenniferHelen says:
    May 28, 2011 at 1:20 pm

    This is *so* so wonderful. You are all beautiful, and we can’t wait to smooch on her! I may have to smooch on your belly before then… :) :) :)

  48. 98
    Kristi says:
    May 28, 2011 at 4:51 pm

    Congratulations!

  49. 99
    Heart n Soul says:
    May 29, 2011 at 3:30 am

    Hey there …just letting you know that I love your blog so much that I am sending rays of sunshine to you (and your lovely blog) in the way of a little blog award. Which is a nice way of saying your blog rocks and to encourage you with all your fabulous thoughts and musings. So stop by and pick up your ‘Stylish Blogger Award’ sometime soon … and if not, just know that your blog is a sunny place to be :) xx

  50. 100
    Sarah says:
    May 29, 2011 at 6:02 am

    Beth,
    Just popped back to let you know we opened our gender envelope last night and it revealed…. GIRL! We are thrilled! I feel like a creepy blog stalker with your same due date, ultrasound date, and now gender! I promise we didn’t plan it that way :)

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