I think it’s time I update you on something that is happening in my life.
Brian and I separated back in July. We filed for divorce in November. We will finalize in the next few weeks.
This process, for both of us, has been very difficult yet very peaceful.
We’ve opted to make this as private as possible because it’s simply about us and our children. We learned very early on that some of the worst effects of divorce comes from people not involved with us directly.
We are still a close knit family, just in a different way. Every week, we have dinners together, we laugh together, there is much peace among us. We truly are doing what’s best for the children, in every capacity.
I hope you’ll respect our request for privacy during this process. I just felt it was time to share, as many things will be changing (we’ll be selling the house, etc.) and I’d like to continue writing here.
sending you many virtual hugs.
Hugs to you and your babies. Hope all remains peaceful for you and for a smooth adjustment for all involved.
I am surprised by your news, but not at all surprised that you and Brian are handling it so positively. You two have always put your kids first and it’s refreshing to see that they are still your priorities and not your pawns to hurt each other. My heartfelt wishes go out to you and Brian and the kids for many, many years of laughter, dinners and love together, just in a different way. ((hugs))
I keep coming back to this post to comment and then leave, over and over and over again without commenting. I feel like I know you and I really don’t and this news makes me so sad. Why? I don’t know why. I wish you the best as you navigate these new waters. Now, wanna eat some nachos with me? I make some very awesome salsa too…..xoxoxo
Oh, Beth. I just don’t know what to say. I’ve been reading you since I started reading blogs. I’ve cried, laughed, RELATED to you through your words. Though we’ve never met, please know you’re in my thoughts and prayers. I know both you and Brian will handle this with grace and dignity.
This is your safe place. We are all here for you.
And what Lisa said about the salsa? TRUTH. Hooker retreat in Texas? I think so!
Hugs and peace to you. xoxo
You are so brave for sharing this with us…
I wish you continued peace and much happiness in the future!
Erin
Ooooh, so that’s why she’s barely posted and why she’s always late with You Capture and why her hair always looks funny. (Just kidding!) Really I feel so badly for you guys, wish there was a way to hold the family together. Keep loving on those kids. (I know you will!)
Beth, like so many others I have been a lurker and non-commenter. My heart hurts for you and your family. Please know I am praying for peace for your family in this situation. Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
And yes, nachos are good. So is ice cream.
So sad
I’m glad things are going as good as can be expected in this situation
Ugghh~so sad about this. Hope things stay peaceful and i hope the kids continue to do well
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this transition time. I think it is wonderful how you guys are handling things. I only wish my parents would have done the same. Take care!
hi There, I found your blog; as thru LTYM, i laughed & cried thru your reading. I am auditioning this year. Wanted to send you hugs during this time.
wowzers. i am in complete shock. my heart is bursting with sadness, compassion, and love for your sweet little family. my brain has thought of you each time i’ve woke {or is it woken} up tonight. high fives for completely thinking of your precious beautiful children in all your actions. much love. many prayers. and some tears from this stranger.
I’m so sorry to hear this, Beth. Peace and grace to you.
prayers for a peaceful transition…..
Beth,
I have been reading your blog since it was just ‘Ariel’ and ‘Racecar’. My heart goes out to you in this time of change. So glad to hear that your beautiful family has found a peaceful loving way to navigate this change. For the zillionth time since i began reading your blog I wish I could hug you. Xoxo
Thank you for sharing with us…and I don’t mean just this specific post. Please don’t stop writing.
I too am a longtime reader and lurker, and just wanted to say that I too appreciate you sharing this with your readers. Wishing you peace, calm and lots of comfort during this time. Oh and compassion, for yourself and Brian and your kiddos. And I don’t mean to sound like a creepo, but I am actually on the tail-end of the divorce process with two young kids and intention from both myself and my soon to be ex to make this an amicable, peaceful process. If you’d like to email me to chat about this I’d be happy to be there, sometimes it helps to chat with folks who are going through it. No pressure at all, but just wanted to put that out there. Take good care.
Wow, Beth. I’m at a loss for words. But we are here for you. For all of you. Much love.
It physically hurts to read this post. Love and peace to all of you, Beth.
I’ve come back here day after day hoping to think of something profound or encouraging to say, but the best I can do is tell you I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I hope things work out peacefully for you and your children.
I’m so sorry you’ve been going through such a rough time. I feel horrible I haven’t checked in for a while. I do hope you guys can continue to get along. That is great when you can still function as a family even if you’re not married anymore. (My own parents are divorced, but we all celebrate holidays together and get along.)